By Dr. Stewart Bitkoff
Show me someone
Whose life has been easy?
And I will show you
Half a person. SB
For the spiritual traveler every day life problems offer an opportunity to learn and move forward along the Path. Potentially running late to work, not having enough money to pay for gas and wondering whether the kids are coming down with a cold, all stressors- at some point on a spiritual level- offer the opportunity to go deep within our selves.
Once the problem passes and/or is resolved, the traveler wonders: why is life filled with so many ups and downs? Why must there always be clouds to cover the sun?
Problems are placed before you
So you may overcome them.
Searching for a personal answer, the traveler looks about and sees others who are in pain and suffering from a seemingly endless variety of physical ailments. Gradually, the heart begins to ask: to what purpose is all this pain and suffering? To this mystery, the Teaching offers there is both a short and long answer.
Also, this is one of those areas where the mind or every day consciousness asks the question and the heart or inner spiritual awareness, ponders and answers only through life itself. The every day mind is not capable of completely figuring it out; in fact, that is not its job- its job is to ask so the heart might respond.
My teacher used to say, daily problems, suffering and pain serve as a friction which pushes the traveler onward, searching: pain and suffering is the great teacher. Further, if this life were all joy, laughter and sunshine, many would have no need of the Light, travel further and experience what lies beyond suffering and sunshine- the Oneness.
In answering this personal question- why is life filled with problems and suffering- to fully comprehend the lesson, you must have your own experience. As the Light Wills, ask and one day you shall be ‘illuminated.’ In the meantime, it is good to consult the Books, Religions and experts: part of the answer is presented there as well.
Consider why the soul comes to this realm: to experience the fullness, serve and be co-creator. In order for there to be darkness, there must be Light to compare it with; and beyond them both is the Oneness. This Oneness is perceived through love and asking; in order for this personal spiritual experience to occur, you must put aside for a time preconceived notions about what you have been taught and your judgments about Deity.
In one of my books, which specifically addresses this dimension to life; why travelers suffer and are born only to have terrible illness? We go into this from the perspective of an entire family that faces life long mental illness (in the younger son) and eventually Alzheimer’s disease (in one of the parents). It is the second book in Journey of Light: Trilogy and is entitled: Teddy’s Last Swim in Paradise Land. This story offers the ancient teaching: some souls come here to take on the mantle of suffering and illness so they might spiritually advance and help others around them learn and question.
This answer is offered as a possibility to Teddy (main character) and he is asked to not immediately reject or accept, but over time let the potential be fully considered.
As the Light Wills, may your journey through life be glorious and all your questions have answers.
Just as water must undergo change
To become snow,
So, we must undergo
A process of alteration.
Slowly, this world of the senses
Must be taught to give way
To the world of the soul,
Then, the change is complete. SB
No one’s life is easy;
To each is a struggle.
Only the perfected ones
Are able to look at their pain and laugh.
To them, joy and sorrow fade
In Realization of the Beloved. SB
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Also by Dr. Bitkoff, A Commuter’s Guide to Enlightenment (Llewellyn, 2008) and Journey of Light: Trilogy (Authorhouse, 2004); these books are available on Amazon.com or from the publisher.
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